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School Holiday Ideas for Working Parents

Dear Working Parents,

Iโ€™m a Stay at Home Mum and itโ€™s the school holidays, and I know some of you may be envious of my โ€œoccupationโ€ at this exact moment, but please donโ€™t be.

I mean, I feel blessed, I truly do, I have the luxury of spending the time with my children and I have the choice to do whatever we want to do, and I do try to make it fun and memorable for them.

But hereโ€™s the issue:

We sometimes take the time with our kids for granted

Working Mumsโ€ฆ thereโ€™s a catch, us Stay at Home Mums sometimes take things for granted, thereโ€™s always tomorrow, thereโ€™s more time, I donโ€™t have to make the kidsโ€™ lunches today I have HEAPS of timeโ€ฆ oh, and my personal favourite โ€œgosh, look at the mess they created yesterday, I really must clean that upโ€.  With โ€œstay at homeโ€ comes mess, and if youโ€™re me, thereโ€™s lots of it.  See, I thrive on creating amazing memories for the kids, I pull out the paint, the toys, the craft materials and anything else that once had a place in the house and I try really, really hard to create those amazing memories.

They often last maybe 40 minutes, sometimes my children have the focus of a goldfish and the preparation and mess doesnโ€™t quite equate to the โ€œexpected memoryโ€.

Then the cleaning comes, and it lasts the rest of the day and I hate to admit it, but sometimes, yes sometimes (itโ€™s really rare I promise *gulp* *rolling eyes* *looking shady*), whilst Iโ€™m doing it, my kids have their noses stuck in technology.  The shock, the horrorโ€ฆ. But Iโ€™m speaking the truth.

Kids want what they canโ€™t have

Donโ€™t get me wrong, we go places and do amazing things, but thereโ€™s another catch, my kids often say โ€œMama, can I go to school holiday care?  All of my friends will be there!โ€ and then I feel guilty that Iโ€™m depriving them of the memories of the majority, the chance to just chill with their buddies in stock standard school holiday care.  Apparently THAT is the most fun you can have.  Who knew?

You on the other hand, have the guilt of not being with your children, I feel it with you, Iโ€™d have it too if I were you.  Honestly, I think I have it easier than you do, I have some choices that you donโ€™t, but Iโ€™m afraid I probably donโ€™t appreciate what I have at times (Iโ€™ll do better tomorrow I promise).

Focused attention wins every time

Working Mum, I wonder if youโ€™re different to me.  I wonder if youโ€™re so guilty that you make every second with your kids count, whereas maybe I donโ€™t.  โ€œMum, can you play Minecraft with me?โ€  โ€œLater honey, let me just get lunch on the tableโ€.  โ€œMum, can you jump on the trampoline with me?โ€  โ€œLater honey, let me just clean up the nerf gun bullets and paint from the last activity that lasted 5 secondsโ€.

Iโ€™m home with them all the time, I am, but Iโ€™m not sure they are getting the true benefit of that, I wonder whether youโ€™re more present than I am when youโ€™re with your kids because youโ€™re missing them and I have them all the time.  Iโ€™ll try harder tomorrow, I swear.

Working Mum School Holiday Guide

Working Mums, Iโ€™m sorry that you feel bad so Iโ€™ve put together some suggestions on how to make the school holidays special for your kids, I think maybe Iโ€™ve discovered things that you havenโ€™t.

Iโ€™ve discovered that itโ€™s not the amount of time you spend with them, itโ€™s the amount of time that you are 100% focused on them, when you are truly with them and not distracted.  Iโ€™m sorry that sometimes I waste this opportunity when youโ€™re craving it.

I know your time is limited, so hereโ€™s some suggestions on how you can make your school holidays special, with the limited time you have, and after hours time at that!:

  • Head to see the glow worm caves
  • Look for disco nights at ice skating and roller skating rinks
  • Look for disco nights at play centres (like Tiddlywinks, if youโ€™re on the North side of Brisbane).
  • Look for movie nights at swimming pools
  • Look for movie nights at parks, the Brisbane City Council (and Moreton Bay and Gold Coast) have fantastic movies playing, particularly in summer.
  • Go to the movies
  • Replicate a camping experience with glow sticks on the trampoline or in the bathtub and marshmallows toasted over a table top gas burner
  • Head to the local playground and play spotlightโ€ฆ remember that? Soooo exciting.

But seriously, do you need to go over the top like this?  Remember that I discovered something that maybe you havenโ€™t?  Itโ€™s that all the activities in the world donโ€™t mean as much as one on one time with you.  Itโ€™s the simple stuff theyโ€™ll remember.

Working Mama, make a big deal of allowing your child to stay up late, bring out the pillow and blankets, make a homemade pizza with them and some cupcakes (of course theyโ€™ll decorate them and youโ€™ll let them put on way too much icingโ€ฆ but youโ€™ll just smile and ignore it).

But thereโ€™s one thing that will make it special working Mama, ditch your phone, ditch the cleaning, ignore everyone and focus on your babyโ€ฆ theyโ€™ll remember that I promise.

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Janine Mergler

Janine Mergler is a veteran Queensland teacher, graduating from QUT with a BEd majoring in Social Sciences. After many years in the classroom, Janine moved on to academia. She has proudly trained new generations of teachers in her role as a lecturer at Queensland University of Technology Faculty of Education. She has also worked in the Queensland Government as an education specialist, developing education resources and delivering community awareness programs to help families conserve water. Currently she is the owner and editor of Families Magazine, a publication specifically targeted at parents who value a quality education for children.ย  Janine leads a team of professionals who write about family lifestyle, early childhood, schools and education information and family-friendly events.

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